Friday, December 21, 2007
10:21pm
got this from a blog.
Chad Eastman wrote in his book The Truth About Guys, "More than 96% of high school relationships don't last, including the ones that were 'absolutely going to be together forever.' ... The truth is, you will probably date several guys/girls before you get married, so treat each relationship that comes along as a learning experience & of course, to learn from each relationship.
(If you can get into a dozen relationships in a year & yet not have a clue what have you gained from each experience, you can be 100% sure you are scaring the right person away.) Don't look at every relationship as if you are going to wind up getting married. Most importantly, don't get too involved into talking about the future. Deal with the facts before you let your feelings take over. Go into a relationship to have fun and make a good friend. Nothing more. If, by some extremely small percentage, things should progress into marriage, they will. Don't rush just because you give yourself an excuse that you are young & you can't think rationally.
We are all still growing up. And we do not have the slightest fucking clue as to what type of person we are going to marry because we have hardly begun to discover what type of person we're going to ultimately mature into. The point of teenager-datings is not to find our "soul mate"(or maybe it is, i don't know); but it is to test out the complimentary as well as unfavorable characteristics in people that will assist us in eventually finding "the one."
i think mayb this is true.
don think every r/s ur in, ur bound to get married.
treat every r/s as an experience.
then i guess i wont expect so much too.
afterall, we're jus looking for the right one.
guess i shld change my thinking.
let it loose.
holding on tight gets u nowhere.Labels: i should
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